Most of his clients are 50-60 years old and he meets them through Tinder.
If you have watched kids’ show Barney And Friends as a kid (yes, the same show in which the purple coloured dinosaur Barney the teaches kids about imagination and exploration) then you must be familiar with David Joyner, the man who played the dinosaur. Now 54, Joyner is a tantric sex guru who has sex with his female-only clients and does it without a condom. He claims to unite his clients’ body, mind and spirit through tantric massage and sex.
According to Joyner, the energy that he showed during the shoot of the TV series was a result of his tantric practices and it was the same ‘tantra’ that helped him survive the 120 degree heat inside his costume.
He says that the best way to unblock the energy in you is through orgasm and sex. In his words, ‘When the lingam (penis) and the yoni (vagina) meet there is a certain energy that takes place that hands on the body alone cannot create. Even through G-spot massage it is still not the same energy that flows.”
He believes that sex should be unprotected because using a condom bars that energy. Before he performs his tantric techniques on his clients he shows them his STD results and they are also supposed to show their STD results.
He also has a unique approach to oral sex. He says, “When you go down on a woman orally, it should be just like you are saying grace, like blessing the food you are about to receive. No food in the world can compare to goddess nectar because spirit is involved.
He meets most of his clients on Tinder and charges around Rs 22,000 for one massage session. This includes ritual bath, chakra balancing, a massage and orgasm. He previously worked as a software analyst, then discovered tantra and later got a job as Barney. Though the makers of the show had warned him not to talk about tantra or practice it in front of them he continued to practice it in secret.
He refers to his clients (women with whom he has sex) as Goddesses and has tantric sex with 2-4 women every week. His first session to his clients is free.
However, other tantric gururs are not much happy with Joyner’s way of practice, specially his reluctance to use condoms. Some have slammed it as shady saying ‘Even porn stars use condoms.”
Many of his clients are between 50-6- years old and seem to extremely happy with his methods and results. One woman even said that she experienced a full body orgasm only at the hands of Joyner.